First- I have edited out a couple of your words that goes against one of our forum rules that I am sure you have read over and understand but in case you haven't here is the link.
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Second- I am sure you will get some great advice to your issue. A little patience should yield some great comments for you. We have a great amount of knowledge here that love to help. I hope you are able to get it up and going soon.