Well, after 2 months of nothing from NAPA I sent another email and they finally responded.
They admitted they were wrong and that they ordered it from Kohler or another store and that is why the cost was so high.
I guess the dumba$$ that took my order forgot to tell me that and that shipping would cost almost as much as the part. They never offered to replace my damaged gasket or offer me any credit.
Long story short, I get to keep my damaged head gasket, they keep my money but the next time I buy something he said to give him a call and he will get me a discount.
If they would of offered to replace my damaged one I would of purchased another at the price they advertise but my feelings on this is they basically didn't want to waste their time on a $20 order.
It will be a cold day that I ever step foot into one of their stores again.